My Life on the Line: How the NFL Damn Near Killed Me and Ended Up Saving My Life - Softcover

Ryan O'Callaghan played right tackle in the NFL for six seasons, with the New England Patriots and Kansas City Chiefs. Before he was drafted by the Patriots in 2006, he played for the University of California Golden Bears, where he helped the team win two bowl games and was named the 2005 Morris Trophy winner as the Pac-10's best offensive lineman. O'Callaghan is the creator of a foundation designed to provide scholarships for out LGBTQ athletes. He currently lives in his hometown of Redding, California. All of O'Callaghan's proceeds from the dale of this book will benefit The Ryan O'Callaghan Foundation (www.ROFDN.org).

Cyd Zeigler is the cofounder and coeditor of Outsports.com, the world's most renowned publication dealing with LGBTQ issues in sports. One of the world's leading experts on the intersection of sexuality and sports, Zeigler has been tapped to discuss the issue by CNN, ESPN, the New York Times, Sports Illustrated, and many others. He has worked with countless athletes to tell their coming-out stories, including professional athletes Michael Sam, John Amaechi, and Ryan O'Callaghan. He is also the author of Fair Play: How LGBT Athletes Are Claiming Their Rightful Place in Sports. A graduate of Stanford University, Zeigler now lives in Los Angeles with his husband and two cats.

"The former Patriots and Chiefs offensive tackle lays it all out in his powerful new memoir, My Life on the Line, co-written with Outsports editor Cyd Zeigler."
--The Advocate

"O'Callaghan and co-author Cyd Zeigler...strike a balance of harrowing authenticity and zestful optimism in recounting the trauma of his past while paving his path toward recovery. Ultimately, that path provides a way for athletes today to be open about their sexuality and gender identity."
--Outsports, from a feature on Ryan O'Callaghan

"O'Callaghan's work reveals the physical and emotional pain driving his addictions and suicidal thoughts while struggling as a closeted lineman for the New England Patriots and later the Kansas City Chiefs. His journey to self-acceptance is challenging as it detours through the hyper masculine world of professional football."
--Washington Blade, included in the Fall Arts Preview: Books

"My Life On the Line is that rare sports autobiography where the details away from the field are more compelling than the on-field stories...[O'Callaghan's memoir] is an honest glimpse at how hard it still is to come out in so many parts of the country. It's an engaging, well-crafted, and ultimately heroic journey."
--Outsports

"[My Life on the Line] details not only the football player's professional sports career, but also his self-destructive battle with depression and opioid addiction, as well has his path to recovery."
--Bay Area Reporter

"The calmness and insouciant joy O'Callaghan exudes is emblematic of how far he has come in overcoming his own self hatred. The football player turned gay rights activist and Redding native gets to relish the person he is now instead of blending into the culture of toxic masculinity he assimilated into for most of his life."
--Record Searchlight

"Ryan O'Callaghan made headlines two years ago when the former NFL defensive tackle came out as gay, making him one of the league's few openly LGBTQ players. Two years later, he's about to publish a book detailing his years-long struggle with his sexual identity and the physical and psychological toll of pro football."
--Windy City Times

"This book is a must read for a number of reasons, and for a number of people. For young athletes--young people--struggling with their own sexuality and self-identity. For older athletes or professionals who are wondering about revealing their true selves and what it could mean for them professionally or personally. For those dealing with their own drug or alcohol addictions, or dealing with family members or friends with those struggles. Perhaps most importantly, this book is for family members and even parents of people who might be in similar shoes to O'Callaghan's. To know that what they say and do even during a child's formative years can have a huge and lasting impact on them as they grow. This book will help people, it will change lives, and it is one that all should read."
--Pats Pulpit (SB Nation)

"Ryan O'Callaghan provides an unadulterated view into depression, being a closeted gay man, and the often harsh business of the NFL."
--Ron Clements Sports

"The book takes a look at O'Callaghan's life in the NFL while dealing with being closeted and being addicted to drugs. In the introduction, the former offensive lineman talks about abusing painkillers and attempting to use one of the guns he owned on himself due to his secret and from dealing with multiple injuries. And even though he was not looking for anyone to help him, Price was able to reach out and make sure O'Callaghan was getting the help he needed."
--PopCulture Sports

"This a great story. Regardless of where your loyalties lie. It wasn't all that long ago that Ryan O'Callaghan was hiding his identity, struggling with addiction and losing his will to live. Today he's healthy, no doubt an inspiration to guys dealing with his same issues, and probably about to become a best selling author. What's more, he might be the pioneer who proved you can come out to a collection of testosterone-fueled rage monsters and they'll still accept you. That's an outcome we can all feel good about."
--Barstool Sports

"An incredible person with an incredible story."
--California Golden Blogs (SB Nation)

"Ryan O'Callaghan is one of only a handful of openly gay former NFL players. Eight years after retiring, he's opening up about his time in the sport and how it 'damn near killed' him."
--Queerty

"Ryan O'Callaghan, who played five seasons in the NFL for the New England Patriots and Kansas City Chiefs, and came out of the closet in June 2017, has released a tell-all book about his time in the professional football organization."
--Towleroad

"O'Callaghan discusses those dark days and happier days--thanks to counseling--in his memoir, My Life on the Line: How the NFL Damn Near Killed Me and Ended Up Saving My Life."
--Q Voice News

"My Life On The Line is a courageous and sometimes frightening dive into the mind of a once deeply closeted individual who, through the help of others, found a reason to live."
--A News Café

"[O'Callaghan's] memoir vividly presents the painful process of kicking drugs and accepting his sexuality. For sports fans who haven't lived in fear of having their sexuality exposed, O'Callaghan's powerful narrative should trigger much-needed empathy...A fine book on an important subject, and a source of hope for a more accepting world."
--Booklist, Starred review

"O'Callaghan has written a gripping and complex examination of the ways in which bigotry and self-hatred walk hand in hand, and the ways in which the snares we set for ourselves are often more dangerous than the ones which others set for us. It's a shame that a book like this is still necessary. Thank goodness O'Callaghan wrote it."
--New York Journal of Books

"In this country, LGBTQ individuals face varying degrees of acceptance. Ryan O'Callaghan, a former offensive tackle for the New England Patriots and the Kansas City Chiefs, chronicles his struggle as a closeted gay man in the hypermasculine world of professional football in My Life on the Line, coauthored by Cyd Zeigler."
--Publishers Weekly, included in an LGBT preview/feature

"[O'Callaghan's] powerful memoir will inspire and even provoke change, and serve as a building block toward acceptance and empathy beyond NFL locker rooms. This no-holds-barred account reveals O'Callaghan's long journey to recovery and self-acceptance, and provides hope for anyone, not only professional athletes, living life in the shadows."
--Library Journal

"In this country, LGBTQ athletes face varying degrees of acceptance. Ryan O'Callaghan, a former offensive tackle for the New England Patriots and the Kansas City Chiefs, shares his struggle as a closeted gay man in the very masculine world of professional football and his story is about love and acceptance, honesty and truth, integrity and hope. O'Callaghan could have kept his sexuality to himself but instead he offers us all of himself in these pages. By his doing this, he will change lives, save lives, and continue to forge path ahead so that it will be much smoother for those who bravely follow in his footsteps."
--Reviews by Amos Lassen

"This is a powerful and urgent autobiography...As [O'Callaghan's] life spiraled downward thanks to surgeries, depression and addiction, he came very close to fulfilling his vision of suicide. How he pulled himself up again is a remarkable story, and one that everyone should read, regardless of their affinity for football."
--The Silver Unicorn (Bookstore), Paul's Staff Pick for September 2019!

"This is a story about love and acceptance. It is a story about honesty and truth, integrity and hope. Ryan O'Callaghan could have kept it to himself, could have given the world a polished look. But instead he offers us all of himself in these pages. By doing so, he will change lives, save lives, and make the path ahead that much smoother for those who bravely follow in his footsteps."
--Congressman Joe Kennedy III

"Ryan O'Callaghan's story is so poignant, so real, so human. I truly believe the publication of this book could be (and should be) a seminal moment for many athletes and other people in all walks of life. If an NFL player, cloistered in the manliness of his game, can come out of the closet and tell his story with such purpose, I hope that many others will follow his brave lead. This dramatic story of one athlete's life might be a turning point for football."
--Peter King, NFL analyst, NBC Sports

"In this moving and powerful memoir, O'Callaghan details the fear and pain of a lifetime spent hiding one's true self. It's a suspenseful and cathartic look at a man on the edge, whose salvation could only come from admitting his truth and finding acceptance. This book will change the lives of young men and women struggling to come out, and the lives of those around them, who may not know how they're contributing to a loved one's pain and silence. O'Callaghan's brave and honest story is another big step forward in the continued fight for acceptance of LGBTQ people in the world of sports."
--Sarah Spain, ESPN Radio host

"My Life on the Line is an intense, heart-wrenching look at the reality of life in the NFL, told with gripping honesty and courage. Everyone, not just those interested in football, should read this book."
--Chris Kluwe, former NFL player, author of Beautifully Unique Sparkleponies: On Myths, Morons, Free Speech, Football, and Assorted Absurdities